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The most often question I get asked is, "How can I read over 1500 words per minute and still understand, or comprehend the material?" Stated in another form, "Does speed reading really work?" Without writing an entire course, this article will try to answer these questions.
If you have been exposed to some program that teaches you how to move through materials at very high rates in the thousands of words per minute range and you are not comprehending, then the program has failed you. Recently I got an email from someone who told me they had been working with a computerized program and that they had increased their speed to over 2000 words per minute but were not comprehending much and asked if I could help. This was an excellent example of bad, misguided training.
After the learner is more comfortable with the physical/mechanical skills, then we build comprehension in a purposeful manner. When the learner has broken out of the old habits they have accumulated in the past, then they are taught how to monitor what the mind is doing as they don't have to think so much about the eye mechanics.
To answer the question, Does speed reading really work,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]," I say no! You work it! That means there are ways to train your brain to respond differently as you accelerate your speeds. What I have found to work best is to teach learners the mechanics first with some level of comprehension,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but letting them relax and not worry about getting(memorizing) as they go thru this initial skill building stage.
There are two primary aspects of "speed reading." The first is improving the mechanical aspect of reading. That happens with some sort of eye movement techniques. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is possible to physically move the eyes and see all the words in the material at rates of 10,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],000 - 100,000 words per minute. Naturally a speed reading program will contain this aspect. But unfortunately, this is about all that is trained,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], leaving the user frustrated as I so often hear.
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The second aspect of speed reading is comprehension. Comprehension is the mind's response to the symbols on the page. In effect, then, reading is thinking. You can read as fast as your mind can respond to the print. So, to truly speed read, you need to learn how to move your mind faster as well.
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A mural brushed upon a barn wall; the flag of a beloved country, the star of a lone state.
Keep yourself open to inspiration…eyes, ears, brain and heart. You will be inspired by strange and wonderful things and you will write strange and wonderful things. You will leave totems for following generations to read.
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Our relationship with ourselves is the most important one we will ever have in our lives. It is more important than the relationship with our parents, spouse, or even our children. Our relationship with ourselves also affects all other relationships, so if you don't love yourself, you will not be able to love anyone else.
People who try to be the center of attention can sometimes have the lowest self-esteem. Because they need to feel accepted by others, they're willing to forego their own self-acceptance. This is a heavy price to pay. Ultimately we learn that if we live to please others, there's no way to be true to who we really are.
Some people make a distinction between self-esteem and self-worth.
Self-esteem refers to the impression we have of ourselves based on performance and response to life's challenges.
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Her right leg was insured for $600,000, but her left leg was "only" insured for $500,000. A hundred thousand dollars is a big difference for the same set of legs! The reason for the price difference was because her left leg had a tiny scar on it. The insurance assessors felt that because of the scar,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the left leg was not as "valuable" as her other leg.
Our level of self-esteem depends on the value we give ourselves. Our self-worth depends on how we see ourselves, not through the eyes of someone else, but through our own eyes.
It doesn't make any difference whether our scars are physical or emotional; anything that varies from the accepted norm that is considered a "10" or "perfect" by The Professional Flaw-finder Crew can make us feel that we're not good enough, nor worthy of success or happiness.
I'm sure many of you, like me, have "scars" that make us feel that our value is less than it should be. Maybe we've made mistakes, been deeply hurt by someone,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or possibly have hurt someone ourselves.
Loving yourself means:
If we allow our level of self-esteem to depend on circumstances, from one moment to the next it can soar upward or zoom down toward the lowest reading on our self-esteem barometer. Johnny just scored the winning goal in a soccer game, so he may have very high self-esteem after the game. However, Johnny's self-esteem may shoot downward if he can't score any goals during the next game.
The objective of the larger game of life is to have high self-esteem readings all the time, regardless of our circumstances.
Pat yourself on the back. Be proud of who God created you to be. You are worthy because you were born. You are unique, special, and powerful.
Recently I saw an interesting news report about a famous model who decided to get her legs insured. Her legs were a highly marketable asset, so it was important to her and her modeling agency to make sure they would be protected against any potential injury or harm.
You've probably heard the well-known command from the Scriptures: "Love your neighbor as yourself." Its intent is to teach people how to treat others. Actually, this is another version of the Golden Rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
It's easy to forget or ignore the wonderful you that was created for a specific purpose on this Earth. It's easy to overlook the fact that you're perfect just the way you are, and that whatever you label a "scar" is actually a medal of honor.
Those who struggle with low self-esteem and low self-worth also have the "not good enough" syndrome. They fear they won't be accepted by others because they don't qualify, so they spend most of their energy figuring out what other people want them to be. Then they try to become that type of person.
Your past challenges represent the strength and determination you demonstrated during those trying times, and your value as a human being is even more elevated because of those "battle scars." They are marks of valor that show how far you've come, and how much stronger and wiser you are today, as a result of having met those challenges instead of running from them.
Check in with your self-esteem for the answer to these questions. Self-esteem affects every area of our lives.
Treat yourself well, or just as you would treat other people (and as you would want them to treat you). Ironically, many people interpret this wisdom by beginning with their neighbor and excluding themselves in the phrase, "Love your neighbor." Period. What happened to "love yourself"?
I'm not in the insurance business or the modeling world, but it struck me as odd that someone's legs could be insured. It seemed even stranger to me that one leg was worth less than the other because of a tiny scar.
Who is really qualified to determine the worth of an individual?
If I asked you to list ten positive qualities about yourself, could you list all ten immediately? Or, would you get stuck after the third or fourth one? What if, on the other hand, I asked you to list ten of your worst qualities, or things you don't like about yourself; do you think you could complete that list much faster? The fact is, most of us focus on what's "wrong with us" rather than what's "right about us."
Consider the logic: How can you really be accepted if you don't know who you are? How can anyone really like you if they don't know the real you?
This statement bears repeating: If you don't love yourself, you will not be able to love anyone else.
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Of course I'm using this illustration as a metaphor. Obviously, we cannot place a price tag on our worth. This is just a way of demonstrating that whenever we measure ourselves against someone else's standards, our "flaws" or "scars" immediately become apparent.
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Wearing a mask is very strenuous; there's always the chance of being found out, and eventually that's what happens. When we're not on our best behavior or guarding our emotions, the transparency leaks through.
We focus on the needs and desires of others. We give and we give, until finally we have nothing left but neglect for ourselves and our own needs. We jump through hoops to make other people happy, but at our own expense. The end result is the feeling of being overwhelmed, exhausted, and drained of any reserve energy to focus on our own wants and needs.
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If one of your friends or co-workers made a mistake, would you berate this person by calling her an idiot or making her feel worse? Of course you wouldn't. You know she's only human, and we all make mistakes.
When you don't know who you really are, you don't know what you really want. All you know is what others want from you.
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People with high self-esteem generally don't feel the need to impress others or gain their approval. They feel okay just the way they are.
If just her set of legs alone are worth $1,100,000, I wonder how much they think the rest of her is worth. And then, the big question:
If they think they can only be accepted when they're friendly or happy, then they do everything possible to make sure everyone knows how happy they are. You'll never find these people complaining or admitting how they really feel. It's always "Great!" "Wonderful!" "Couldn't be better!"
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Our barometer reading of self-esteem has a direct correlation to our projected levels of success. Why is this so?
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Self-love and self-esteem are closely bonded to each other. When you don't believe in your abilities, your value or your worth, your mind cannot respond in the opposite way. Your mind will go in the direction of your dominant thoughts. If you don't feel good enough, you will likely live a life to confirm these beliefs.
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These "scars" may be so enormous in your eyes, they successfully hide the beauty within you or, to put it another way, you are hiding your beauty behind those scars. When you hide behind a scar, your thoughts, beliefs, feelings, and behaviors cover up that wonderful you.
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The ability to love, accept, forgive, and believe in ourselves plays a huge role in determining our level of self-esteem.
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You'd likely tell her not to worry about it and console her to make her feel better.
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You may know someone who seems to be good-natured all the time. He's the kind of person you like to be around because he always has a positive attitude. Then one day you learn that he's taken his life, or in a rage, he's injured or killed others.
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It's hard sometimes to be tough minded when we'd like to collapse and have someone take care of us. In my work with companies and individuals, I see another version of this problem: people who are overwhelmed by their lack of success and get discouraged. They give in to that discouragement instead of developing strategies to dig their way out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and finding appropriate outlets for their frustration, anger, and/or sense of defeat.
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But expressing your emotions at the moment that you feel them can lead to disastrous consequences. Cry in the workplace,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and some people won't take you seriously ever again. Shout at your spouse, and the intimacy you share may be damaged. Beat your puppy - even if he WAS about to run into the busy street - and he may cower around you for the foreseeable future.
Tell yourself that, assuming you're not clinically depressed or otherwise ill, it's your CHOICE whether to act now and hope to improve your situation, or just collapse and let it all go. Make that choice, and live with the consequences.
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What's the remedy? Or, what's the coping mechanism that will help us to survive the bad times until the good times roll again?
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Tough times happen. Even the most talented, successful people have down times, ballplayers have slumps, people who are fundamentally optimistic get discouraged, kids (and adults) have bad, blue days.
The key is to allow ourselves to have bad feelings, but to disconnect HAVING the feeling from ACTING ON it. Express the feeling, yes, but only when it's appropriate to do so. I like to express a lot of mine while working out. Other people beat their pillows, or talk to accepting friends who will hear them out and not be driven away by the intensity of the emotions expressed.
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I also learned as a coach that I needed to set boundaries. I used to let clients say anything they liked to me but now I will not put my emotional needs secondary. If a client was to get aggressive and shout at me during a coaching session, I would set a limit. People can be angry of course, but hostility is not acceptable. In truth,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it also does not help anyone to just keep quiet when your boundaries are violated as in this case, I would be setting an example that angry behaviour towards me was acceptable.
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Here are some examples of weak emotional boundaries:
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So when it comes to how people treat us emotionally, we will all have limits on what we find safe and acceptable. When I was a teenager, I used to allow friends to comment nastily about the fact that I wore glasses. This used to upset me at the time because I didn’t know any better. However, in adulthood, I now know that nobody has the right to comment on my appearance and if this was to happen now, I would be able to respond by saying ‘My appearance is none of your business and I would like it if you kept your comments to yourself’. I also choose in adulthood, not to surround myself with individuals who make nasty comments!
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1) I feel uncomfortable when you speak to me like that. Please stop it
2) I request that you lower your voice
3) What you are saying is unacceptable to me. Please stop it
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Have you ever walked away from a person, event or situation and felt resentful or violated? If some of your experiences are making you uncomfortable, then it may be time to set some boundaries. Setting good boundaries is healthy. It is not rude,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], bad or wrong. It is not bad or rude or wrong! YES,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I repeated that statement as many people believe that they should not speak up or set boundaries just incase it hurts another’s feelings. However, when we walk away from a person who has hurt us in some way,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we often feel resentful and upset. Not speaking up gives out the message that the emotional wellbeing of the person who has hurt you is more important that your own emotional wellbeing! The result is that you are happy to protect another persons feeling – but not your own!
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“I am not worthy.”
Next, I lead them through this exercise using the following statements, making note of the intensity:
Technique for Assessing &amp,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; Collapsing Shame
Occasionally, a client will be disconnected from any memories. Using the body can be helpful in this situation. I’ll ask the client how they knew the statement(s) held some truth…where did they feel this truth in their body. Then I have them describe the sensation and start tapping. For example, “Even though I feel this tightness in my chest when I say, “I am bad”; I deeply and profoundly love and accept myself.” Many times this will reduce the intensity enough for the memories to bubble up.
“I am no good.”
If all of these statements are rated a zero,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I ask them if there was ever a time when they felt any of these statements were true. I repeat the statements, if necessary, having them review how true these statements felt in the past. Should there be any feelings of truth to these statements, I ask them to think about the first time they remember feeling this way. This will often lead us to the core issue of shame.
First, I give the client the following explanation:
“A part of me is evil,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].”
“I don’t deserve what I have.”
“I am unacceptable,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].”
“A part of me is bad,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].”
By its very nature, shame is not something many easily or comfortably shares with others,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even with professionals. Unless the client broaches the subject first,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I believe it is important to have already built a strong sense of trust and rapport with the client before exploring feelings of shame. Fear of judgment can preclude clients from continuing treatment. Once trust has been established, using the following technique can prove very fruitful. I call it the technique “The Truth Barometer” and here’s how I use it as it relates to shame.
The results of several research articles show that shame plays an important role in depression. I was prompted to examine the research when I noticed that many of my clients seeking help for depression also had feelings of shame. So I did a little informal survey of my own,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
“I’m going to say a statement. I then want you to repeat the statement out loud. After which I want you to let me know how true this statement feels to you on a scale from 0 - 10. I don’t want you to analyze the statement logically. I want you to tell me from the heart or the gut how true it feels. Zero means the statement feels absolutely false, while 10 means it feels absolutely true. Something in between means it feels somewhat true.”
I randomly pulled 71 client records. As part of my client intake process,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I use a “Symptom Checklist” consisting of over 80 emotional, psychological and physical indications of distress. Included is a checkbox for “depression” and one for “feelings of shame”. Twenty-eight (2Cool of these 71 clients had checked “depression” (almost 40%). Of these 28,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], a whopping 54% also checked “feelings of shame”. And, this does not account for those who were not consciously aware of shame, or did not feel comfortable sharing their sense of shame at the initial visit.
“I am not a good person.”
“I am evil.”
“I am ashamed”
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“I am deficient is some way.”
The difference between shame and guilt can be confusing. Shame refers to a negative focus on aspects of the “self” in response to a wrongdoing (e.g., ”I’m a horrible person for doing that”). Guilt refers to a focus on the wrongdoing which, in adaptive guilt, leads to reparation (e.g.,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “I feel bad for what I did and I should apologize”).
“I am bad.”
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Unfortunately, it will require time for you to overcome a break up. The majority are likely to find that the pain tends to subside a little every day. Eventually, this pain will disappear completely.


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This is part one in a three part series with author and leadership expert Kevin Sheehan.
You’ve been quoted as saying “there is an essential question,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], why leadership, and where does it come from? It is ours to inspire the next generation”. What advice do you give parents when inspiring their children?
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To your question, I have had the good fortune of seeing young people in a wide variety of school and after school settings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], respond to this question of leadership and why it matters. Regardless of background, to the young woman and to the young man in middle school and high school settings,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the response to the question of leadership is over and over again one of passionate interest and natural affiliation. Leadership is about what and who we are as a species,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and without it, there is not a lot of meaning created for any of us to have, share, and hold.
One of the most important things we do as parents is to step outside the role of authority–which can be hard inside the stress of any family–to tap into the natural passions, transcendent beliefs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and leadership qualities of our kids.
There is an old saying that it is hard to be a prophet in your own neighborhood. And it’s because the dynamics of survival require that a lot of focus goes into authority and horse work. But we want our kids to be leaders. And that requires that we move up on the scale of focus and attention and watch for the more impactful things,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
So, listen to your teens. Listen to their innermost passions and interests. Help them know that their place in society is one of import and power; grace and importance. They are wrestling with all kinds of powerful forces–social, biological, psychological.
And so–great! All these things are powerful forces that need to be integrated and loved–accepted and fully realized. Because these are the dimensions and qualities that your kids will harness as leaders.
In my book, I encourage young people not to underestimate the power of their leadership capacities or of their place in society. Remember that many of them are looking to you for an image of their potential: to be guided to their best selves. If your parents did not give you this gift, this is the perfect time to give it to yourself by giving it to your kids. If your parents did give you this gift,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it’s time to amplify the power of that energy and that gift through the next generation.
In your book, A Leader Becomes A Leader, you share inspirational stories of leadership that inspire the new generation. Can you share with my readers a story that encourage you, as a parent?
I was recently at a teaching event, broadcast into middle school classrooms around the country. One fourteen-year-old girl astonished me with her grasp and detailed description of how leadership works.
So,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we did a follow on interview session with her, and I asked her in the middle–”When you imagine graduating high school, or college–going out into the world and making a difference as a leader, what does that look like for you?” And she said, “You know, before I read your book about leadership and took the leadership course in our class, I never thought that I could become a leader. This process has been a life changing one, because it’s made me think differently about myself.”
What was striking, beyond that statement, was how connected she was to a powerful understanding of the leadership process, but at the same time, did not yet have an effect on how she saw herself. The process of igniting the fire in young people is so important. Getting into the moment and helping them move up to the next level by framing the meaning of what they are.
Our son recently decided to run for student counsel. His teacher told us that his speech,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], which he practiced in front of us several times,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], was important in changing some minds and getting him some votes. We should never under estimate where our kids are on the continuum of personal growth. I believe that ours, as parents, is not to provide the talent, but to ignite and nurture the moments of talent and energy that show themselves naturally.
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To establish identity: One of the ways kids use lying is to establish an identity and to connect with peers, even if that identity is false. Lying can also be a response to peer pressure.


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